Our Process



  • After the initial contact, I offer a free consultation. We either meet or have a three way conference call at your convenience. At the interview I listen, to what you want, I ask a lot of questions and make suggestions for how to achieve your vision. I am willing to do anything you want as long as it is positive.

  • I give you a questionnaire to answer. Instead of a sermon, I write about you; how you met, why you love each other, and what you want to do with your lives. I tell it like a story teller and bring in humor, and make it interesting for all.

  • As we create the ceremony together, you will have access to my collection of many readings, rituals and vows. After the ceremony is written I send you a first draft to edit. Yes, you can add, delete, and rewrite it.


  • After the initial contact, it can be as simple as a phone call to arrange the date, time, location and type of ceremony you want.

  • For more elaborate elopement ceremonies I am willing to meet and discuss options.

  • I do whatever it takes to make your meaningful, memorable and uniquely yours. This is your ceremony and your story and my aim is to tell it the best I can.